How to forgive a murderer? First, by differentiating his sufferings from his exploitation of death to ease them. For his sufferings – greed, jealousy, frustration – he will need reeducation, support and, compassion. For our outrage about murder, we need to examine deeply our faith in death. As long as we collectively believe that death has power over life, we will spawn deluded, self-appointed little gods who want that power.
D. Patrick Miller