a good marriage is

a good marriage is that in which each appoints the other guardian of his solitude Rainer Maria Rilke

Existence is not itself

Existence is not itself a good thing, that we should spend a lifetime securing its necessaries: a life spent, however victoriously, in securing the necessaries of life is no more than an elaborate furnishing and decoration of apartments for the reception of a guest who is never to come. Our business here is not to live, but to live happily.
A. E. Housman

Since love grows

Since love grows within you, so beauty grows. For love is the beauty of the soul.

Saint Augustine