I am accustomed to sleep and in my dreams to imagine the same things that lunatics imagine when awake.
Rene Descartes
You know what happens
You know what happens to sex in marriage? Instead of inviting desire, you monitor it. Especially men: You let her sleep late, you take the kids to the park, and all that time you’re thinking, Tonight I’ll get some. That doesn’t work. Esther Perel